Insecurity. Clearly, this resonates with many of us. Whether it’s striving to be accepted or difficulty with knowing our true identity, it can be a real struggle. Yet, we can learn to silence it. Or, at least, turn the volume down on the voices (perceived and real) that whisper (or shout) that we aren’t good enough.
Friend, let me tell you, after a good number of years of bumps, scrapes, false starts, and restarts, I finally know within the fibers of my being that we are not merely defined by who others say or thinks we are. We aren’t merely a product of our parents, and we’re not even who we have worked so hard to be or believe we are.
We are simply who God says we are.
Let’s take a look at a few scriptures that reveal this truth in more detail:
Ephesians 1:4 says God chose us.
Ephesians 1:7 tells us we are forgiven.
Ephesians 2:10 states we are His workmanship (not our own).
We learn in 1 Corinthians 6:19 that we are God’s temple, in John 1:12 that we are God’s children, and in John 15:15 that we are friends of Jesus.
We cannot allow the world or even well-meaning friends and family to wrongly define and label us. When you start to hear that lying voice in your head saying you are not good enough, attractive enough, smart enough, or simply enough, stop right there and tell yourself (yell it out loud if you have to):
“No, I am not stupid. I am God’s workmanship!”
“No, I am not unloved or unwanted. I am a friend of Jesus!”
“No, I do not deserve to be abused. I am a temple of God!”
Allow the voice of the Savior to be heard above every other voice…including your own. That is the only way to silence insecurity.
Want to read more on this topic? It can be found in chapter 12 of my upcoming book “Reclaiming Sanity: Hope and Healing for Trauma, Stress, and Overwhelming Life Events” to be released on June 1, 2017. Pre-order TODAY!